• Jena

Grateful for my age and stage..


Actually, I’m really 25.  Did you know that?  When I was like 25-28, I felt about 40, or what I thought that should feel like.  So, since I didn’t feel 25 at 25, I’m actually getting to do it now.  That’s great.  But what was it that made me feel so old, out-of-steam, hung-out-on-a-line.. at  25?!!  

I wasn’t out doing drugs or living in an immoral way.

 I was happily married and having babies–trying to do all that God had for me.  Even though I was in the will of God, life was still VERY hard.  Being pregnant often and raising the older (toddlers and preschoolers) children, was and always will be EXHAUSTing.  Life was one task after another, after another, after another.  

The chore list never ended; there were no real breaks.  The bottom line is: it is just hard.  

So, I learned some lessons. 

 1) Just because something is hard does not necessarily mean you are doing something wrong.  

2) Conquer one day at a time.  God promises grace for today.  Try not to be thinking too long term about everything–especially if those thoughts are overwhelming.

3) Life has stages.  Time is hard thing for people to grasp their hands on–especially when they are young.  (And I still consider myself to be young!)  But time DOES pass, and there are other things God wants you to do BEYOND this stage.  

4) Try to get the “main gist” of what God wants you to be doing at this phase of your life, rather than focusing on all the things you can’t do.  

I was having a conversation with a friend who is trying to teach four children to read right now.  All of them are having visual and reading problems.  One of the triplets (yes triplets) has dyslexia, and the other two have other issues.   Wow.  I mean Wow.  Talk about hard!

Another friend has five children and the oldest is first grade!  

Some moms have 9 children! or even 10!  

I’m not giving you examples to make anyone feel guilty.  I feel guilty myself.  I basically had four normal, healthy, on-schedule learners with no side issues, and I still felt overwhelmed a lot of the time.  

For now, God has brought me to a “time of rest” compared the first stage of when my older kids were little.  I still have a 3 year old.  I’m still raising teenagers.  I still have to do a lot of planning, but I’m starting to see some of the fruit of my labor.  That’s a good thing.  That in itself makes 40 feel like 25.   For those 25 year olds who feel very OLD, chin up.  The harvest is coming. 

#perspective

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